Claiming Your Independence
In my last commentary, I raised the issue that some people who “Live to Eat” may have more than just a taste for good food. I encouraged you to examine your relationship with food by asking yourself several questions. Can you enjoy a social event without eating? When something emotional, good or bad, happens to you, is your first thought to find something to eat? Is food always on your mind? Do you typically stop eating something only when it’s all gone? If the answers to any of these questions raise some concern, you may need to begin working on claiming your independence from food.
Food addiction is a fairly new concept for many scientist and clinicians. There is still some uncertainty if “addiction” is the best term to describe the phenomenon. Some debate if the phenomenon even exists. For our purposes, I’m going to suggest that anyone who attempts to restrain their eating and is unable to do so despite multiple attempts and knowing that excessive eating will lead to harmful consequences may have some form of food addiction. The idea is similar to that of drug addiction, but food addiction lacks the physical dependence that drugs produce. Whether or not you agree that addiction is the best term to use, the fact remains that an abnormal relationship with food leads to harmful consequences.
There are some basic strategies that may help you begin to redefine your relationship with food. One strategy that people often use is to restrict or avoid specific types of foods. The benefit is that avoidance keeps you under control and prevents you from fighting a battle of willpower. The downside is that you will be unlikely to avoid foods you like forever. I’m inclined to think of this as a basic initial step. Using avoidance can give you some time to learn more complex skills to handle different food situations. Another option is using a controlled allowance. Because restriction can often make a food item seem more desirable, allowing yourself to have a limited, well-contained portion on a regular basis can take away the allure of the food item over time. It is better to have one small piece of dark chocolate every day than to binge on a 1 pound bag of M & M’s at the end of the week. Getting in touch with your hunger and eating on cue is another strategy that can be helpful. I find that many people who are potential food addicts skip breakfast and ignore their hunger at many points throughout the day. However, when they do eat, it is usually to excess. You can retrain your body to sense hunger, and only eating when you are hungry reinforces the idea that food is primarily designed to provide fuel for your body.
Food addiction is very different than any other substance that one may potentially abuse. Tobacco, alcohol, or drugs can all be avoided. You have to eat in order to survive, so you must deal with food on a regular basis. This makes it the hardest substance to use responsibly when you have a potential problem. If you think you have a problem, seek help from your healthcare professional. Long term support is the best strategy you can use to help you make a lasting change.